INTJ

I love to hear and read about personality types, not just mine but everyones. I normally don't connect well with people, which should be obvious to most since well I have really no connections other then family and a few other people and even those I have are almost non-exsistent, but anyway I still love to read about their personalities and what makes them click. And then I am like oh no wonder your a loser, no wonder we don't connect because I am sweet and you are a numbnut. And then I am like take a look at what this numbnuts did- actually I don't say that the cop from something about mary does but it was a sweet line in the movie so I felt I needed to drop that in.

Hopefully you all find your type and then we can discuss it, I am a really good listener actually as long as you are talking about something interesting, if not I will fake yawn and act like I am tired. Once months ago I listened for like four hours, the girl was just talking I never said anything just listened. Well I may have said a few things but she was interesting enough. No fake yawning. It wasn't that bad- actually to be honest it was good, normally I would say oh I am going under a bridge I am breaking up but not then, I never faked a breaking up scratchy noise and then hang up. I am sure it wasnt me that was the interesting one and could not get enough of my own answers. But normally I don't talk on the phone though so, I used like 20 mins on my phone last month so that should tell you something. I do text more but other then months ago when I was like on a texting frenzy with someone I don't do alot anymore. Maybe I am like a teenage girl at heart who really loves the phone, I am just too embarrased to admit it. Hmmmm?

What was my point right? I have no idea, but I think it was personality traits. Yes it was and how freaking sweet mine is compared to everyone else.
http://www.personalitypage.com/html/home.shtml
That is the personality page I am pulling this stuff from

So I am an INTJ which is
Introvert-I
Intuitive-N
Thinking-T
Judging- J

This one is called the scientist.
I will give you the highlights because I know you don't give an F about my type you just want yours but because it is my blog and you guys should care because my type is the sweetest you could learn maybe how to be more like me.

INTJs live in the world of ideas and strategic planning. They value intelligence, knowledge, and competence, and typically have high standards in these regards, which they continuously strive to fulfill. To a somewhat lesser extent, they have similar expectations of others.

It is not easy for the INTJ to express their internal images, insights, and abstractions. The internal form of the INTJ's thoughts and concepts is highly individualized, and is not readily translatable into a form that others will understand. However, the INTJ is driven to translate their ideas into a plan or system that is usually readily explainable, rather than to do a direct translation of their thoughts. They usually don't see the value of a direct transaction, and will also have difficulty expressing their ideas, which are non-linear. However, their extreme respect of knowledge and intelligence will motivate them to explain themselves to another person who they feel is deserving of the effort.

INTJs spend a lot of time inside their own minds, and may have little interest in the other people's thoughts or feelings. Unless their Feeling side is developed, they may have problems giving other people the level of intimacy that is needed. Unless their Sensing side is developed, they may have a tendency to ignore details which are necessary for implementing their ideas.

They are quick to express judgments. Often they have very evolved intuitions, and are convinced that they are right about things. Unless they complement their intuitive understanding with a well-developed ability to express their insights, they may find themselves frequently misunderstood. In these cases, INTJs tend to blame misunderstandings on the limitations of the other party, rather than on their own difficulty in expressing themselves. This tendency may cause the INTJ to dismiss others input too quickly, and to become generally arrogant and elitist.

INTJ Strengths
Not threatened by conflict or criticism
Usually self-confident
Take their relationships and commitments seriously
Generally extremely intelligent and capable
Able to leave a relationship which should be ended, although they may dwell on it in their minds for awhile afterwards
Interested in "optimizing" their relationships
Good listeners

INTJ Weakness
Not naturally in tune with others feelings; may be insensitive at times
May tend to respond to conflict with logic and reason, rather than the desired emotional support
Not naturally good at expressing feelings and affections
Tendency to believe that they're always right
Tendency to be unwilling or unable to accept blame
Their constant quest to improve everything may be taxing on relationships
Tend to hold back part of themselves

INTJs are highly intense, intelligent people who bring a lot of depth and insight into most major areas of their life.Personal relationships, particularly romantic ones, can be the INTJ's Achilles heel. While they are capable of caring deeply for others (usually a select few), and are willing to spend a great deal of time and effort on a relationship, the knowledge and self-confidence that make them so successful in other areas can suddenly abandon or mislead them in interpersonal situations.

This happens in part because many INTJs do not readily grasp the social rituals; for instance, they tend to have little patience and less understanding of such things as small talk and flirtation (which most types consider half the fun of a relationship). To complicate matters, INTJs are usually extremely private people, and can often be naturally impassive as well, which makes them easy to misread and misunderstand. Perhaps the most fundamental problem, however, is that INTJs really want people to make sense. :-) This sometimes results in a peculiar naivete', paralleling that of many Fs -- only instead of expecting inexhaustible affection and empathy from a romantic relationship, the INTJ will expect inexhaustible reasonability and directness.

So there you have it. I am sweet, I know. I think people do find me exhausting, it's like they just find me too intense, too much, I like you chris but I can't explain everything I think in my head to you, let me get my own thoughts straight, and also I don't need to hear your opinion on everything. Like it said though, I am just misunderstood, which I actually have always felt like that. I just want to know what is going on in each person's mind though and people think it is wierd and too much I guess. That is fine though because I have come to realize that sometimes I am maybe too much of a good thing haha. But really once you get passed the first stage with me and I get you, where your coming from and I can comfortably put you in the box I need you to be in, I am much better, most people just don't take the chance. Oh well.